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BIG TALK
Discussion Groups
GUIDED DISCUSSION CIRCLES IN TUCSON
Exploring Life’s Deeper Questions in the Wisdom Years
Come as you are — to a space where meaningful conversations are had, heartfelt memories are awakened, and deeper connections are made.
These bones might creak, but this soul sings.
elderhood = where small talk goes to die and real talk takes over
Kind words from participants
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“Every question was like a doorway into something deeper. I learned so much—not just about others, but about myself.”
– Joyce B., 79
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“It’s not always easy to talk about these things that can sometimes feel tender, but Ken made it feel safe. I look forward to the discussions.”
– Frank M., 77
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“I laughed, I cried, and I remembered things I hadn’t thought about in decades. It felt good to share.”
– Ellie D., 72
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“These sessions were the highlight of my week. I felt seen, heard, and even celebrated in ways I didn’t expect.”
– James L., 79
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“These conversations gave me ease and joy—and helped me make peace with some things I didn’t know I still carried.”
– Dolores T., 91
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“I’ve lived a long life, but no one ever asked me questions like this before. It made me realize how much I’ve experienced—and how much I have to share.”
– Louis C., 81
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"Ken is very supportive. He runs our group with a lot of compassion, and always makes sure everyone gets a chance to talk."
Cathy L., 80
Not dead yet—and not done talking either.
I don’t need fixing—I need a good chair and better conversation.
FAQs
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The 'Big Talk' Discussion Group is a professionally facilitated, on-site discussion group designed for older adults. Each session invites participants to reflect on and share personal stories and insights in response to meaningful life questions—about courage, legacy, change, identity, aging, and more.
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Groups are facilitated by Ken Plattner, a non-denominational chaplain, counselor, and seasoned group leader with decades of experience supporting people through life transitions, grief, and spiritual reflection. Ken’s light-hearted presence and thoughtful guidance help create a warm, welcoming environment.
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The standard format is a 6-week series, with each discussion session lasting 60 minutes. Also available by request: longer series; one-time; or ongoing weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly gatherings.
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All sessions are held on-site at your independent living community—in a quiet, comfortable room that allows for seated group discussion.
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Each session begins with a thought-provoking 'Big Talk' question such as:
“What are you most proud of in your life?”
“What was the bravest thing you've ever done?”
“What helps you through times of change?”
“How do you hope to be remembered?”
Participants are invited to share as much or as little as they feel comfortable.
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Groups typically include 6–15 participants to foster a sense of intimacy and connection, but Ken is happy to adapt the format based on your community’s needs.
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Participants report feeling more connected, valued, and emotionally enriched. The group fosters reflection, deep listening, and a sense of community—and often prompts meaningful conversations beyond the group itself.
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To explore bringing a 'Big Talk' Discussion Group to your community, contact Ken directly:
📞 (520) 268-0120
📧 kenplattner.fr@gmail.com
Or click below to start the conversation.
👉 Schedule a Group or Ask a Question
Aging gracefully is overrated. I’m aging honestly.
