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I was born in an Amish type community in central Illinois. I left the farm to attend the University
of California in the turbulent sixties. My childhood experiences in a small religious community — some wonderful
and some difficult — shaped the qualities people know me for: curiosity, openness, compassion, an exploratory nature
and a deep commitment to creating community.
After taking a Bachelor's degree in Psychology from the University
of California, I found myself in a difficult position. The war was raging in Vietnam, and I was #53 in the draft
lottery — a sure bet on being drafted.
Given my philosophically non-violent upbringing, I chose to
leave the States instead of joining the war. After traveling extensively throughout Europe, I eventually took a job running
a small farm in a tiny village on the Island of Cyprus off the coasts of Greece and Turkey.
Upon returning to the States, I was ordained as a Minister in the
United Methodist Church in 1978. I attended Seminary where I received a Master of Divinity degree,
and then took a position as a Hospital Chaplain.
During the 24 years of my professional career
as a minister, I have acted as Hospital Chaplain in five hospitals. As a Chaplain Supervisor,
I taught seminary students the art of listening and being with people through difficult times. I would tell my students, "If
you are going to be a good Chaplain, then you must learn ‘The Way of Father Mulcahy' (M*A*S*H). You must find a
way to touch the heart, and talk to a Buddhist as easily as a Baptist". This was my own style of ministry.
I was unorthodox, but genuinely compassionate, just like Father Mulcahy. And when a Presbyterian wanted to marry a Jew,
I was happy to be the one to call. Much to the consternation of my Bishop, I was usually "stirring up the pot"
in a Church that prided itself on keeping a lid on the status quo. It wasn't long before I earned the nickname 'IrReverend
Ken" (a moniker with which I was quite pleased).

Subsequently, I was a college professor, teaching psychology and
comparative religions for 16 years. I then became a Certified Marriage and Family Therapist, a role in which
I was proud to distinguish myself clinically.
In 1989, I was called to blend psychology with theology in my work, and I received
my Doctoral Degree in Pastoral Counseling from The Graduate Theological Foundation at Notre Dame University.
For 15 years, I was the Founder and Director of
the Hope Care & Counseling Center in Denver, Colorado. In this position, I developed and supervised over 20 satellite
pastoral counseling centers throughout the Denver metro area.

In 2000, I semi-retired. At this time, I began a new career as a writer. My first two projects focused
in research and development of travel guides to Europe for people with limited mobility. I wrote a popular book with
Rick Steves on accessible travel called Easy Access Europe that has gone to press twice with Avalon Travel Publishing. This brought with it further
expansion and creativity. I started spending more time working and writing at my home in Mexico. Out of this work, I developed a training program within hospice helping professionals, patients and families deal creatively
and consciously with the emotional and spiritual aspects of the dying process.
The creativity of semi-retirement
spawned a new career working with end-of-life issues and Elder issues. This fit perfectly with my community awareness work
around aging. I now write, speak and coach on the topic of creating vibrant "Elderhood".

I served for five years on the Board of Directors of The ManKind Project and I was proud to be the Center Director of the Colorado ManKind Project from 2005 to 2007, conducting men's leadership trainings and seminars in an organization that seeks to "change
the world one man at a time" by helping them connect head and heart. I currently
serve as Vice-Chair of the international Council of Elders in The ManKind Project.

And then came the call from Arizona and it was time to move to Tucson in late 2007 to care for my aging
folks. So, I began afresh here in the gorgeous Sonoran desert with my sweetheart and partner Claire O'Connor. My adventurer son is following his dreams as a ski instructor in Montana; and I have helped raise
four wonderful stepchildren who are now all grown-up.
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- Elder
- Coach & Therapist
- Hospice Chaplain
- Writer
- Celebrant
- Professional Speaker
- Community Activist

Memberships
Past Community Contributions - Commissioner, Denver Commission for People with Disabilities
- Committee Chair, Round
Table of The ManKind Project
- Secretary, Fisher Financial Assistance Fund

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